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Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Been really "busy" watching all 6 seasons of Sex & The City drama since last Saturday. No wonder it created such an uproar back then from 1998-2004. I feel kinda slow dat I'm only watching it now, even after I caught the theatrical version of the show in 2008 n got interested in it.
It's really an interesting show, portraying many different scenarios a relationship can fall into. Yeah, n there are alot of sex scenes n nudity, but the story wins it all. I hope I'll be able to finish the remaining 3 seasons by this Thursday, when I plan to catch Sex and The City 2 at the cinema..
SATC 2 Trailer
on a side note, i luv this scene in Pearl Habor..
how i wish i can do this too, fly someone to catch a sunset
Thursday, May 20, 2010
How To Be A Better Couple
10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials ! or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probabl! y isn't worth it!
Clearing some old stuffs from my mailbox n came across this email from 2003 by the ex.ex-gf. Think this might be useful as a reminder for couples out there. I noe sometimes ppl will tend to take things for granted as a relationship gets longer. Dun do that, it will start to become stale.
It's a mistake most human will make, so pls do try to avoid committing it. It takes alot of effort, time n commitment to maintain one, so dun juz become bochup after the honey moon period is over. It's like a pot of plant which u need to water it daily, fertilise it occasionally, bring it out to the sun, showing care n all so that it will grow strongly, bloom beautifully and finally bear some fruits.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Pre- Post- HK
HK trip post wun be up until I get the total cost of whole trip sent to me. Will do a thorough after-trip-review on the place in the blogpost. Pictures below contains both pre and post trip happenings.
2nd May, Sunday
Nice evening.. Whole family went out for an early Mothers' Day dinner celebration since both me n sista will be overseas on the actual day..
went River View Hotel for buffet dinner
Fu Lu Shou
dunno wad is this
nt sharks' fins
vinegar pig trotters
shrimp paste wings
prawns in herbs
sea cucumber, mini abalone n sharks' fins
mini abalone is damn cute.. haha
14th May, Friday
The day after my return from HK, Penang relatives were staying in my hse.. I became the tour guide of the day..
dinner at Han's
den brought them to Marina Barrage.. this is the Marina Coastal Expressay(MCE) dat's building under the seabed
nephews having fun with the water
gd lives they haf to end up this bui bui..
15th May, Saturday
the last dinner with them b4 sending them off.. Went Carpenter Street for this famous Bak Kut Teh..
it's not bad.. u guys shd try it, but pls go early like 6pm, or else there wun be any seats..
@ the airport
17th May, Monday
went to watch "The Backup Plan" after my class in sch..
then head to Mirama Hotel for Ikoi Sushi buffet.. Saw this damn hot red Porsche in the carpark..
chicken + pork