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Sunday, August 08, 2010
Right One Wrong Time?
Have y'all ever feel that you found Mr. Right, but it's at the wrong time?
Well I do. And it's kinda upsetting.
I've always thought that Mr. Salty is the "right one" since I first started dating him close to one year back. (Well I still do.)
But there's always this "wrong timing" thingie at the back of my head.
"Damn, if only I got to know him 2 years from now. I would readily marry him."
Hmm, but honestly, I think I'll marry my second boyfriend too,
if I were to know him 2 years from now.
Ahh, all the right guys at the wrong time.
I believe that every relationship has to have an advancement, otherwise, it is just going to crash.
An example will be something like:
1. Courtship [2 months]
2. Dating [3 months]
3. Attached [3 years]
4. Wedded couple [2 years]
5. Parents [Rest of the life]
I think a couple should never linger at any one stage, apart from the last point, for longer than what I stated in the brackets. (I think I'm damn technical lah!)
Otherwise, one thing or another is going to happen, and there goes the perfect relationship.
Mr. Salty and I are on a rocky patch now.
But I really do think that he's the one.
Yet again, my Mr. Right at the wrong time...
No wonder parents ban their kids from getting into BGR when they're still young teens.
Because, they'd been through the phase, and the understand timing.
Sometimes, I feel fate is juz playing with everyone..