Mistress?

Was blog surfing, n i found this article. http://www.meetlilprincess.blogspot.com/
Mind u, the writer is a 18yr old female
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Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Mistress Maybe

What's with the controversy now about having a mistress?

I means, whats wrong in being one, or having one?

If a lady is tall, slim, slender, sexy,feminine and attractive,

And is able to attract a filthy rich (and most probably balding old) man,

W.H.Y N.O.T?????

I know all married women who happen to be reading this entry...
May object violently and strongly to what I have said...

But seriously, why not put yourself in an attractive lady's shoes?

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It takes 2 hands to clap.

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1st example:

A man is attracted to this gorgeous looking lady.

He expressed interest in 'taking care' of her.

If she wants a good comfortable life..

And is open-minded to being laid by an old man whose old enough to be her dad,

Thats's already 2 hands which are clapping together.

2nd example:

Somehow, a lady who seeks a comfortable life,

Is aiming at this old-aged rich balding with a pot belly man.

She captures his attention, seduces him, gets him to be attracted to her...

He couldnt resist temptations, decided to 'take care' of her...

There you go~ 2 hands which are clapping together!

From what I read from The New Paper On Sunday, the mistress puts in efforts to buy and wear sexy lingerie to please him. Yes, the govt has been encouraging such stuff between married couples.... Thats what "Romancing Singapore" is all about, isnt it? But which wife will do that always?

Wouldnt the husband gets sick of seeing his (probably old and unattractive) wife?

The husband sees his wife REGULARLY in her 'ugly state' :

(1) "Just Woke Up from Bed" Look

(2) " Screaming At Their Naughty Kids" Look

(3) "Screaming At Him For Returning Home Late" Look

(4) "Nagging & Complaining At Everything & Everyone" Look

(5) Etc....... etc..... etc.....

Comparing to the mistress?

The mistress is always dressed nice, gentle, sweet.... Always wearing so sexy and revealing (which practically turn him on!)... Massages for him...Don't question his whereabouts... Etc.... Why wouldnt a man not want a mistress? I ask you. Yeah, I ask you.

A man wants to feel authoritative. Its always said that in a house, the wife is the head of the house... Controlling everything in the household. Men wants to be superior. And thats what a mistress is able to make a man feel - superior.

What I detest is if the man doesnt reveal that he is married or has a family to the mistress. Though thats seldom heard of, but there may be cases of this.

Real example:

I have a friend. She was with a married man for a few years ever since she was in High School. She loves him and was the 2nd woman in his life. She didnt mind initially cos she treated him like a fling at first. But sooner or later she realised she has feelings for him. And thats when the relationship between her and her guy started. But she was hurt always, she felt lonely on weekends, the sex was great, the guy was nice to her.... But as she started loving him, she couldnt accept the fact that he was married.

Soon, her temper got all weird and tipsy-topsy... For he couldnt be there for her... Just like how a regular boyfriend is able to... That guy that she was with... He wasnt rich, he wasnt attractive or has a good build, he is just charismatic and humourous and nice eyes and smile... I wonder what does my friend... A gorgeous-looking, model-lookalike, sexy friend of mine, sees in THAT guy!!!

Anyway, they have ended, the last of what I heard from her. She misses him, for him and the sex. But she knows she has to move on... As quoted from her,"Such mistress stuff don't have a happily ever after". And I certainly agree to that.

Girls, even for relationship, if a guy can leave his gf/wife for you, he can also do that to you in future. Bear this in mind. Just a lil advice from lil princess. :)

Another real example:

I know of a lady, who was then around the age of 20. Lets call her "A"... She became the mistress of a rich man in the "dark world"... And even bear a son for the man. One thing I like about this man is that he treats his wife and A fairly. Like for example, he brought his wife and kids to Japan for a holiday. And the following week, he takes A along. And of cos, A's son was being taken care of by A's mother. Surprisingly, the man's wife knows of the existence of A. She minds, but cant do anything about it. Afterall, A is far younger and sexier than her.

You cant blame the man's wife for being unattractive or what... Cos... Men just like SYTs... And men likes to have new stuff and excitements in their life... No one likes a monotonous life... not even me....

So let me say again, I see no wrong in a lady being a mistress or a man having a mistress. As long as the lady doesnt make trouble for the man's family, and the man treats both his wife and mistress fairly.... I'm fine with it. Say I'm open-minded in the wrong way, say I'm thinking unhealthily. But to me, its totally alright to HAVE one or BE one.

Wow... I had read the article on The NewPaper last Sunday, n indeed, mistresses lead a really comfortable n luxurious life. She may be called a cheap woman, but heck, her kind of life is what many women can only dream of. Posh car n condo plus fat pocket money. No stress, no nothing, juz shopping n pampering herself with endless facials n manicures. There is only one downside. She has to be there for sex when the old man wants it. To say it uglily, a mistress is something like an expensive but gorgeous sex object.

I would not want a mistress for sure. One lady in the house is already tough enough to handle, let alone TWO. I want my children to respect me, n i will never do something so wrong, which is a very bad example for them. I will love my wife no matter what she becomes. Fat, naggy or tigress, I will still love her, cos the bond between us will be more than juz the surface.

Marriage is not juz a piece of certificate. It is a lifelong committment.